Have you ever been walking around your house, minding your human business, when your dog lets out a huge, dramatic AF sigh? As if those freeloaders have anything to worry about!
But before you spend 20 minutes lecturing your dog on being grateful for their pampered lifestyle, keep in mind that dogs do, in fact, get stressed. Although they don’t often communicate this emotion through sighing (most of the time they are literally just breathingopens in a new tab), stress in dogs can manifest in pacing, panting and whining.
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Long-term stress can also result in destructive or dangerous behaviours and affect both your pup’s and your own quality of life. Stress in dogs can be triggered by pain, separation anxiety, boredom and more. Most importantly our dogs’ stress should be taken seriously – even if they are an unemployed mooch of a pooch.
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After taking the necessary steps to address the root cause of your dog’s anxiety, a great way to help your dog channel their stress is through toys that engage stress-relieving behaviours such as licking, chewing and mental enrichment. No matter the toy you select to help relax your pup, each one should follow a very simple rule.
“All of these toys should allow your dog to ‘win,’” says trainer, pet lifestyle expert, and Kinship Expert Collective member Nicole Ellisopens in a new tab. Nicole goes on to say that stress toys should be de-stressing – not distressing. “It is important to ensure dogs don’t get frustrated or stressed with toys. The goal is to have them win and stay engaged.” With that in mind, here are Kinship’s picks for the best toys for chillaxing to the max.
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You can never go wrong with a classic. This lick mat is a great choice for directing your fretful dog’s attention towards something fun. A largely unchallenging toy, this mat is perfect for high-stress situations, when your dog is more likely to be distracted.
This frozen treat toy might as well be an icy piña colada for our frazzled pups. Fill and freeze the Pupsicle with your pup’s favourite treat mixture and watch your dog’s brow unfurrow. In addition, this treat is perfect for dogs struggling with separation anxiety; it can last up to 40 minutes.
A lot of dogs are tough chewers on their best days, and an anxious day is only going to increase that urge to chomp. To help your pup relax, we recommend this treat-holding toy by Qwizl, specifically designed for aggressive chewers. This toy can be paired with anything from bully sticks to spreadable treats to make a fun, challenging game out of snack time.
If crate trainingopens in a new tab is bringing your dog down, consider this training-aid toy from Diggs. Specifically designed to create a positive association between your pup and the crate, this toy utilises a pretty simple design. Step one: cover toy in lickable treat (peanut butter, honey etc). Step two: attach toy to crate. Step three: have your dog lick the treat inside the crate and let the de-stressing ensue.
“I love seeing dogs that are anxious in the crate go from licking the Groov toy for a few sessions to relaxing in the crate on their own. Then, they have their own safe spot in the home when they need some quiet time to decompress,” says Nicole.
Snuffle mats are ubiquitous as the go-to enrichment toy, but did you know this type of toy can help your pup reach some serious zen? We especially like this one by Injoya that combines snuffling with licking – two behaviours proven to relax our pups. Or, if you are a family that’s more into dairy than peanut butter, try Injoya’s pizza snuffle matopens in a new tab.
A puzzle for your puzzled pet, perhaps? This favourite is great for times of boredom and stress (fun fact: boredomopens in a new tab can even cause stress in a dog). Just make sure you know your dog’s, how shall we say, intellectual interest level before setting this down in front of them. A dog not interested in more academic pursuits might find this puzzle too challenging to be fun. However, a dog who feels stressed by a lack of stimulation (looking at you, working and herding dogs), will gravitate to this puzzle toy.
All pup parents know the golden rule: Kong is king. Kong toys have long been the godsend for dog parents dealing with separation anxiety, boredom and the simple desire to watch Netflix and take a bath in peace. As much as the Kong is a solve for those issues, it’s even better for de-stressing your pup. A perfect combination of treat and puzzle, the Kong is a stress toy that all dogs can enjoy – especially as they come in different sizes and rubber types to best fit your dog’s needs.
Nicole wholeheartedly believes in the power of the Kong: “Most dogs go back to the Kong multiple times throughout the day, which I love. The shape of the Kong gives the dog the ability to hold the Kong and just lick it, and allows them to settle in a spot, while the fun shape can allow them to roll it and chase it. This helps them explore new areas that may be causing stress and anxiety.”
If you have tried all the treat toys and puzzles under the sun and your pup still can’t find their centre, consider going a different route with the Snuggle Puppy. The Snuggle Puppy uses low heat and a heartbeat function to mimic a companion for your anxious dog. Many users rave about this toy being a game changer for separation anxiety and crate trainingopens in a new tab, which can be some of the most stressful situations for pups.
Rebecca Caplan is a writer based in Brooklyn whose work has been featured in The New Yorker, Reductress, and Vulture. She lives in Brooklyn with her perfect, toothless dog Moose.
